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"On Grindr, I find it exhausting that ‘top or bottom?’ is the first question you're asked if you haven't specified a role on your profile," 31-year-old London resident Jon says.(App Annie considers that the best way, in this particular case, to independently measure an app's market penetration.) We only list the top-rated app for August, but your favorite app may have been a close second or come out on, um, top in another month, since the competition is fierce.You might be (rightly) thinking, "What about queer women?Say what you want among friends, but I’m a bit bored of the online discourse being, like, ‘bottom energy! ’ or ‘that’s not gonna work—two bottoms don’t make a top.’ It’s super-reductive."Some fans are so keen to pigeonhole male idols as tops and bottoms that even cishet celebrities, such as Shawn Mendes, Timothée Chalamet, and the members of One Direction, have these sexual roles (which are most readily associated with gay men) applied to them.
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“And you know, I think some gay guys out there maybe had one really bad experience bottoming and never allowed themselves to try again because they were afraid it would be bad again.”Everyone I speak to has reservations about the tops and bottoms as labels, but there’s also a broad consensus that they’re here to stay—at least for the time being.
"I think those binary identities, with vers, vers bottom, and vers top as qualifiers too, are really helpful for many guys out there, so there’s no need to reject them entirely,” says Jon.