Crucial dating tips for men
Pity is not a strong foundation to build attraction on.
Even for the most talkative of women, this can feel a little overwhelming.
We use the word “nice” when describing something we have no real passion for, such as a “nice cup of tea.” Think about things you adore, that excite you or inspire you and then see if the word “nice” can articulate those emotions.
Replace the word “nice”, “lovely” or even “pretty” with something more dynamic and that focuses on a more detailed attribute of hers.
The conversation will flow easier and far more naturally if you really listen instead of thinking ahead of yourself for the next thing to say!
Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.
Never invite a woman on a formal ‘date’ if all you are looking to do is engage in one or more episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with her.
Let the conversation flow, and let her reveal the hidden sides to her personality by gently provoking or challenging her, rather than making huge demands on her. Instead, try and implement what I like to call “future projections”.
If she doesn’t like your choice of venue, then make up for it in the interaction.
If the venue is more important to her than spending time with you, she’s not a keeper.
Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) is a bestselling author and relationship expert specializing in today’s evolving forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Bathe or shower within three hours before your date; 9. Never spend more than approximately .00 on a woman for your very first date with her; 3.
Ideally, you should engage in at least one lengthy (thirty minutes minimum) phone conversation with a woman prior to your first formal ‘date’ with her; 2.