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“People want to have more power and control,” Zaidi said.
“They want a voice in the whole process.”Muslim dating apps and gatherings, where young people can find others who share their religion and values, appeal to younger Muslims who want that voice.
Mariam Bahawdory, whose parents immigrated from Afghanistan, felt frustrated with the cultural idea that men and women shouldn’t converse.
She’d been attending for a month, since she decided that she wants to marry a Muslim man. She’s had some conversations via the app, but one in particular highlighted an ongoing struggle: “I am not interested in any physical intimacy until marriage,” she told her prospective date. And for young Muslims trying to balance their desire for love with the expectations of their religion, the dating scene can be even harder.It requires women to make the first move by messaging men with whom they’ve been matched — a stark contrast to tradition.She expanded ESHQ to Chicago, New York and Washington, D.But for young American Muslims, whose parents and grandparents adhered to more traditional and strict family obligations in dating, or had arranged marriages, the pull of familial expectations can be strong.Canadian sociologist Arshia Zaidi, author of a study of Pakistani women in the United States and Canada, finds that the younger generation has shifted away from the strict family obligations their parents and grandparents may have adhered to.