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To “get” and keep a guy, you need to be elusive, mysterious, a bit of a bitch. But I firmly believe it is more likely to happen “in the real world” than when we’re meeting by checklist in the virtual universe of endless potential dates.

And that just may mean saying “yes” to every opportunity to meet new people – every way we can.

She is considering relocation, and hoping for more options elsewhere.

As my significant other was scoffing at my insistence that it’s tough for women to find good men once they’re over age 45 much less 50, I reminded him that I possess plenty of experience in matters of Second Life Socializing.

It is in that genuinely real world that our immediate impressions are a matter of mutual attraction and energy, a spark (or its absence), and then, chronological age really isn’t the issue at all.

Instead, it’s the everything else – including practical considerations on both sides – in a more well-balanced formula and relationship that proceeds more naturally.

Every time I meet a guy I’m interested in, I’m quick to text my friends a gleeful, exclamation-point-filled message about him, and they’ll tell me about their crushes in return.

” And he is indeed a rarity, which I would like to back up with numbers, though finding the appropriate statistics remains a challenge. A survey this month found eight out of 10 women over 50 think they have become invisible to men. The men who are honest, and unlike my European gentleman friend, more likely to want what theoretically promises to be an easier pairing, at least temporarily? (We do.) Nor am I saying that practical matters like health and finance aren’t important.

I dare say, this is more than “thinking” we dwell in no man’s land, or as the author of The Plankton puts it quite colorfully, “a plankton on the food chain of sexuality and the prospect of a relationship.” So just what are those numbers? Sure, we have Huff Post on Dating Dealbreakers for the over 50 crowd – apparently hygiene is more of a concern than one might think – and may offer the recommendation not to “get hung up on chronological age,” but don’t we know better? This thought continues to tumble around in my mind: When older men trade in the original model for younger women, where does that leave the women they discard? There are those who have always believed that nice guys finish last – and the same goes for nice women. They chase a nip here, a tuck there – my place is not to judge (though I have my opinions); what saddens me is when nothing ever feels like it’s enough, and the surgeons get rich off our youth-obsessed culture. (They are.) I’m not saying it’s impossible to find someone to love who is your contemporary.

But if I want a real relationship, one that will last, I want someone close to my own age.” “You’re a rare bird,” I said. For example, The Guardian UK addresses the challenges of midlife dating for single women in this article, which quotes a writer who describes the no man’s land where many middle-aged females find themselves.

“Why do you think so many women lie about their age – especially online – regardless of how they look or feel? The anonymous woman, whose blog is called The Plankton, is not alone in believing that there are problems specific to being a single woman in middle age.

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